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Lisa van de Geyn Tanya Bell* is a self-confessed pack rat. Aside from her new husband, two dogs and a cat, the 39-yearold Mississauga, Ont.-based marketing coordinator lives in a small townhouse with a ton of stuff she can’t bear to part with: programs from every concert she’s ever attended, tickets from sporting events that date back to the 70s, her childhood stuffed animals and more than 750 copies of Sports Illustrated magazine. “My husband calls all the stuff in our house a nightmare. I call it somewhat comforting,” Bell admits. “I’ve become so oblivious to it that I don’t even realize how bad it actually is.”
Sure, clutter is annoying (no one likes looking for missing keys in the morning or closets so jam-packed that stuff explodes every time you open the door), but it can also pose several health problems. Clutterbugs are susceptible to stress, depression, asthma and obesity. What it is Got too much stuff lying around? So disorganized that there’s always a mess in your way? If your clutter can’t be defined as circumstantial (for example, your house is untidy because you’ve recently moved), you might be a clutterbug. “These are people who aren’t just a bit disorganized; they don’t understand routines and don’t have time-management skills,” says Vancouver-based professional image organizer Rowena List. “Clutter robs you of time; it can cost a whole lot of money and, depending on how overwhelming it is to you, it can leave you with a heavy feeling in the pit of your stomach.” Hoarding stuff has also been linked to genetics and can run in families, says a British study published in the American Journal of Psychiatry. How it's harmful Clutter can contribute to psychological problems such as depression, social anxiety (clutterbugs are often too embarrassed to entertain at home), low self-esteem, negative self-talk and poor decision-making skills. “At extreme levels, too much clutter can contribute to significant physical health problems too, such as asthma that’s exacerbated by dust,” says Karen Rowa, a Hamilton, Ont.- based psychologist. It can also be associated with high blood pressure, sleeplessness (if you’re up all night searching for important tax documents under piles of paper, for example) and even obesity. “Clutterbugs often have poor time-management skills and make poor decisions, so they’re less likely to exercise and eat healthy,” List says. Pests and rodents in messy homes can also be dangerous, as can objects falling from shelves. Where hoarding fits in Large amounts of clutter fall under the hoarding umbrella, says Rowa, as do people who have trouble getting rid of possessions and “resisting the urge to buy, acquire or pick up more clutter.” Vancouver-based professional organizer Heather Knittel adds, “Hoarders assign extremely narrow and specific uses for every item. There is an obsessive quality to their material consumption.” You could be a hoarder if your living conditions are causing arguments with family, conflicts with landlords or fire hazards. (Last March a Vancouver man died of smoke inhalation when he couldn’t escape his excessively cluttered basement.)
How to start conquering clutter Be objective about your belongings. Knittel coaches her clients to ask four questions: When was the last time I used this? Do I like it? Am I confusing how I feel about this with how I feel about the person who gave it to me? Am I holding onto this because I spent a lot of money on it? This should help you come to terms with what you can part with and what you really want to keep.
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